‘Your family living room shouldn’t look like a playroom’ – interior designers share 15 chic ideas for a more elevated space

cosy family living room with grey sofa and built-in shelving with ladder
(Image credit: Chaunceys Timber Flooring)

Unless you are lucky enough to have the luxury of two living rooms in a family home, this will usually be a room that needs to cater for the masses. It needs to be both a fun space where kids can play, as well as one that caters for grown-ups as a relaxation space when the kids aren't around.

As interior designer Holly Scott points out, your living room design needs to keep everyone happy rather than exclude certain members of the household. "When I design a family living room, I always approach it as a space that needs to work for everyone, while still feeling considered and grown-up. It shouldn’t feel like a playroom, but it does need to support real family life."

To prove that it really is possible to create a family living room that can be enjoyed by every single member of the household, all while looking sophisticated and stylish, we have brought together 15 of the best ideas and expert tips around.

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1. Decide exactly what this room is going to be used for

living room with dark marble fireplace and bay window with window seat

Think about who will be using the room and the activities you want it to accommodate to ensure it lives up to everybody's expectations (Image credit: 82mm Photography - Malcolm Menzies; Design: The Vawdrey House)

With any kind of living room ideas, the secret to success lies in good planning and, in particular, deciding exactly how the space will be used – not just on a day-to-day basis (although that is important) but also on special occasions.

"The question I always start with is 'what do you actually want this room to do?'" picks up interior designer Shreya Vohora, Co-CEO of Interiors With Art. "Is it where the family curls up for a Friday film, or the social space where friends gather around the drinks trolley and the conversation runs late in front of a crackling fire? Once you can picture those moments, and the memories you want to create, then the rest of the design tends to follow."

Holly Scott agrees that working out what you want from the space is key. "The biggest shift for most people is moving away from designing around individual items. Instead, I always encourage thinking about how you want the room to feel and how you need to live in it," says Holly. "That’s what creates a space that feels calm, cohesive, and genuinely enjoyable for the whole family."

interior designer Shreya Vohora
Shreya Vohora

Shreya Vohora is an interior designer and the co-cEO of Interiors With Art (IWA), specialising in high-end residential and select hospitality projects across the UK, Middle East, and beyond. At IWA, Shreya is redefining luxury living by embedding wellness into every layer of the home, creating spaces that enhance sleep, cognition, and long-term vitality. Her work has earned recognition on the global stage, including a strategic joint venture with Sotheby's International Realty (2026) to set new benchmarks for ultra-luxury, health-centric living in India. Shreya’s career is defined by a commitment to innovation, wellness and designing spaces that truly nurture the human experience.

image of award-winning interior designer Holly Scott
Holly Scott

Also know as The Happy Home Designer, Holly Scott is an award-winning luxury interior designer based in Oxfordshire. Holly is known for designing unexpected, statement interiors that create talking points through the finishing touches and styling. She has over 20 years of experience dressing windows and interiors for iconic brands such as Selfridges, Harvey Nichols, Liberty, Harrods, and Ralph Lauren – not to mention many beautiful residential projects

2. Try to stick to non-toxic, natural materials

cosy living room with wide plank wooden flooring and cream linen sofa

Using furnishing and finishes which are largely natural, with little in the way of chemicals, makes sense in a family space (Image credit: Urbane Living)

In a space designed for the whole family, you really do want to be thinking about creating somewhere that not only feels sociable and welcoming, but also one that is safe, healthy and encourages a sense of wellbeing. Reducing the toxins in your home when renovating or decorating is a great place to start.

"Lean into natural materials wherever you can," advises Shreya Vohora. "Linen, cotton, timber, stone, rattan, a touch of aged brass. They age beautifully and they breathe with the room rather than quietly polluting the air. On the walls I always specify natural low-VOC paints in chalky clay, oat or sage.

"Then there's light and air, which quietly do most of the work," continues Shreya. "Daylight is one of the simplest gifts you can give. Allow the light to flood in, place seating where the morning sun can find you, and throw the windows open whenever you can. And don't skimp on plants. Yes, they bring warmth and a bit of nature indoors, but we also know from a biophilic design perspective that greenery quietly shifts how we feel in a space – calmer, happier, more serene the moment you walk in."

3. Create a flexible lighting scheme for a family space

elegant white living room with white fireplace and layered lighting scheme

Creating a layered lighting scheme means illumination levels can be adapted to suit whatever mood is required (Image credit: KES Lighting)

The living room lighting you opt for is so important, not only when it comes to creating the right ambience within the space, but also in terms of how flexible it is in the way in which it can be used by all members of the family.

"A family living room needs to work hard throughout the day, shifting from a place of conversation to a relaxing evening retreat," explains James Kendall, operations director at KES Lighting & Home. "A layered lighting plan is essential. Begin with a ceiling light for overall illumination, then introduce wall lights and table lamps to create warmth and depth. Lighting that highlights texture is especially effective in family living rooms and warm-toned lamps are great for enhancing fabrics, wood and soft furnishings, helping the room feel inviting as the natural light fades.

"You may also like to consider incorporating at least one decorative piece such as a sculptural pendant or chandelier, which will help to anchor the room and bring a sense of intention to the design," adds James.

lighting expert James Kendall from KES Lighting & Home
James Kendall

As operations director at KES Lighting & Home, James Kendall is well placed to offer expert guidance on all aspects of home lighting. James understands just how transformative great garden lighting can be, and has the experience and expertise to transform any space.

4. Seek out multifunctional storage pieces

modern living room with media wall and built in storage with grey L-shaped sofa

Multifunctional furniture, such as seating or media units with storage, mean the space will be easier to keep organised (Image credit: 82mm Photography - Malcolm Menzies; Design: The Vawdrey House)

As a family living room is a space that needs to fulfil many different requirements, it makes sense to opt for pieces of furniture that combine multiple functions, such as sofas with scope for living room storage.

"The key to designing a family living room is to consider the flexibility of the pieces you choose – a combination of closed storage that keeps toys or games tidy, alongside areas for displaying artwork or curated ornaments to keep the space visually interesting," advises Fred Horlock, design director at Neptune.

"Or how about a footstool that can double up as extra seating during the day, or as a coffee table in the evening, and a comfy corner sofa?" he adds. "Perfect for movie nights with the kids."

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Fred Horlock design director at Neptune
Fred Horlock

Fred is design director at furniture company Neptune, who aim to use natural materials wherever possible. Blending a traditional approach with modern engineering, Neptune's mission is to make furniture that lasts for 100 years or more.

5. Choose paint finishes with durability in mind

living room with two-tone blue walls and herringbone flooring with mustard velvet sofa

Focus on paints that can be repeatedly wiped down and cleaned without affecting their finish (Image credit: 82mm - Malcolm Menzies; Design: The Vawdrey House)

While you will obviously want to think about the best paint colours for living rooms when it comes to your overall design, you also need to think about how your newly painted walls will withstand the demands of family life too.

Cathryn Sanders, head of creative at Earthborn, has some advice when it comes to choosing the right paint. "A family living room has to balance comfort, style and durability, and paint plays a central role in achieving that. Choosing finishes that are wipeable and hard-wearing is essential, especially in multi-use spaces where children and adults coexist.

"At the same time, paint can set the emotional tone of the space; so using soft, layered neutrals paired with more resilient finishes on high-traffic walls can create a space that feels calm but is built to last."

Cathryn Sanders paint and colour expert from Earthborn
Cathryn Sanders

Cathryn Sanders is Head of Creative at Earthborn and has worked for the brand for over a decade, meaning she has a wealth of knowledge on paints, trends and the interiors industry as a whole. Working on several colour launches, she is well-versed in trend forecasting, particularly with regard to colour, and subsequently gets the final say on all of Earthborn’s new colours and colour names. 

6. Keep walkways in a family living room clear and open

pale neutral living room with grey sofa and pale walls

Consider how your living room layout will function in order to keep everything running smoothly (Image credit: The Painted Furniture Company)

Whatever living room size you are working with, it pays to design a layout that allows everyone to move around without getting in each other's way.

"If a room is easy to move around, it will feel better to live in," picks up Hollly Scott. "Some layouts definitely work better than others, particularly in multi-use family spaces.

"I always look at flow, natural light, and the main focal point in the room," continues Holly. "Clear walkways are key so the space feels easy to move through and doesn’t become overwhelming. Rather than pushing everything against the walls, I often bring furniture in slightly to create a more sociable, connected seating area."

7. Don't make technology the focal point of your family space

pale grey built-in media unit

Plenty of storage for tech means it won't overwhelm the room (Image credit:  Ashford Kitchens & Interiors)

For most families, it is unrealistic to try to design a living room that banishes technology altogether – after all, who doesn't love a movie night? That said, there are ways of designing the space, even to incorporate media wall ideas, so that devices don't take over.

"Technology is part of modern living, but it doesn’t need to dominate the space," agrees Holly Scott. "Some simple ways to manage it include using built-in cabinetry to house TVs and media equipment, concealing cables where possible and styling shelving around the TV so it feels integrated.

"The aim is for the room to feel like a living space first, not just somewhere centred around a screen," continues Holly. “Your TV shouldn’t be the first thing you see when you walk into the room.”

8. Zone an open-plan family living room

Open plan kitchen dining and living room with herringbone flooring

Use a combination of wall colour, lighting, flooring and furniture placement to zone an open-plan living room (Image credit:  Ashford Kitchens & Interiors)

Creating distinct zones within open-plan living rooms helps ensure that each area within the space has a clear function – something that really can help in a room that needs to keep everyone in the family happy.

"When designing a living room for the whole family, the starting point should always be how the space will be used throughout the day. It’s about creating a layout that allows for different activities to happen comfortably at the same time, whether that’s relaxing, working, child's play or socialising," explains Sophie Chapman, associate and interior designer at The Vawdrey House. "We often use zoning to achieve this, with furniture placement, rugs or lighting helping to define areas without closing the space off."

Holly Scott agrees with this approach. "Zoning is really important, especially in open-plan spaces. It helps create a sense of structure without making the room feel broken up.

"You can zone with rugs, lighting or furniture placement," continues Holly. "For example, the main seating area might be defined by a rug and sofa, while a chair and lamp create a quieter corner. This keeps the space feeling intentional rather than cluttered."

Sophie Chapman, interior designer at The Vawdrey House
Sophie Chapman

A founding member of The Vawdrey House, Sophie oversees the design team bringing her trademark energy & creativity to projects. With a BA in Interior Design & Environmental Architecture, Sophie develops unique furniture packages, styles projects and loves sourcing trips to antique fairs and French brocantes.

9. Choose furniture with practicality in mind

neutral living room with painted exposed brick walls and grey L-shaped sofa

Sofas with washable covers are a brilliant idea in a family living room (Image credit: Pfeiffer Design)

A top living room design mistake is failing to give enough thought to comfort. Obviously you need to give some consideration to how the furniture you choose will stand up to everything daily life is bound to throw at it, but it needs to feel luxurious too.

“A successful family living room needs to balance durability, comfort and aesthetic," says Eloise Pfeiffer, interior designer at Pfeiffer Design. "Choosing the right seating is an essential element which targets each of these areas. When it comes to the sofa or armchairs, choose a long-lasting and easy-to-clean fabric, which also complements your style.

"When selecting fabrics, look for performance materials that are stain-resistant and soft-to-the-touch, such as treated linens and cottons," continues Eloise. "They also offer a refined aesthetic without compromising on functionality. It’s worth opting for removable covers if you can so they can be washed easily."

female with long brown hair wearing black clothing sat on patterned armchair with plants in background
Eloise Pfieffer

Based in Sussex, Pfeiffer Design was founded by Susie Pfeiffer and has over 30 years of experience in the high-end residential and boutique commercial sectors. The close-knit, multi-disciplinary team of designers, project coordinators and technical specialists work together to create inspirational spaces in the home counties, London and even abroad.

10. Select flooring that will stand the test of time

living room in period house with bay window and herringbone wooden flooring

A high-quality engineered flooring not only feels warm underfoot, but will also be durable and long-lasting (Image credit: Chaunceys Timber Flooring)

Living room flooring needs not only to feel soft and cosy underfoot, but it should, in the case of spaces used on a daily basis, and particularly those regularly inhabited by young children and pets, be durable and easy to clean. While you need not rule out carpet entirely, it pays to do your research on the best products when it comes to stain resistance and longevity.

A great alternative, that manages to feel warm underfoot as well as being capable of enduring family life, is engineered timber flooring, as Adam Robertson, MD at Urbane Living explains. "High-quality engineered flooring is designed to cope well with everyday life, making it ideal for living spaces. The key is choosing a well-made product with a quality wear layer and durable finish. A lacquered finish can offer strong protection against day-to-day scuffs, while oiled finishes can make spot repairs easier over time."

Ian Tomlinson, MD at Chaunceys Timber Flooring, also has some advice on the types of flooring to help create a sense of space. "I recommend opting for light-coloured wood flooring to make spaces appear brighter and more open, which is especially beneficial in rooms with limited natural light. Consider a light oil finish on oak or ash, or whitewashed Douglas fir flooring, to add a subtle tint that reflects more light whilst enhancing the wood’s natural grain.

"To enhance the sense of space further, it’s helpful to keep contrast low," adds Ian. "Pairing pale floors with soft neutral tones on walls, joinery and furnishings allows the eye to travel freely through the space. Opting for a matt or satin finish over a high-gloss one can also make a big difference, as it creates a softer, more seamless look that doesn’t disrupt the flow with glare or reflections."

picture of wall panelling expert Adam Robertson
Adam Robertson

Adam Robertson is the co-founder and managing director of Urbane Living, a specialist flooring company recognised for its expertise in parquet, bespoke carpets and runners. With a background in design and a strong eye for detail, Adam is passionate about all things related to quality timber, from floorboards to wall panels.

Ian Tomlinson MD at Chaunceys Timber Flooring
Ian Tomlinson

Chaunceys Timber Flooring is a family-run company based in Bristol with Ian becoming the Managing Director in 2012. They have been supplying sustainable, high-quality timber flooring to homeowners, award-winning architects, design and build companies, and renowned interior designers since 1988.

11. Pick out a colour scheme to help the whole family relax

red scalloped paint effect around doorway leading to neutral living room

Calming neutrals are a great base on which to add colour to (Image credit: Earthborn)

Any busy family space, be that kitchen ideas that incorporate homework spaces, or hallways that need to be up to the job of hectic school mornings, need to do everything they can to keep everyone feeling calm and relaxed – and this is where your colour scheme can really help.

"A larger, multi-use living room can benefit from colour zoning using paint to subtly define areas for relaxing, playing and socialising without the need for physical barriers," explains Cathryn Sanders. "We’re seeing a lot of earthy tones and muted greens being used in living rooms, which are particularly effective in creating a relaxed, family-friendly backdrop, adding depth and character."

"Family living rooms benefit from a palette that feels layered rather than overly matchy," further advises Debbie Leigh, design manager at ILIV. "Start with a base of calming neutrals or gentle earth tones, then build in depth through accent colours in cushions, upholstery detailing and soft furnishings. This allows the space to evolve over time, rather than feeling fixed or overly styled."

black and white headshot of Debbie Leigh
Debbie Leigh

Debbie is an expert in creating beautifully coordinated fabric collections that can be easily combined to create harmonious interior schemes. With more than 30 years of experience, she takes every design from conception right through to the finished textile – inspired by the latest trends and techniques from every continent.

12. Go with an L-shaped layout for sociability

modern living room with red velvet L-shaped sofa and blue fitted shelving

L-shaped sofas and furniture arrangements are great for creating a sociable vibe (Image credit: Pfeiffer Design)

Whether you are after cosy living room ideas for snuggling up in or something more open and airy for your family living room, you want this to be a room that encourages sociability, as well as relaxation – and this is where an L-shaped layout can really help.

"I love an L-shape around a generous coffee table so people face each other," reveals Shreya Vohora. "Ground it with an engineered oak floor and a thick wool rug."

Kate Palmer, head of creative at The Painted Furniture Company, has some more advice regarding layouts. "When it comes to arranging your furniture, a little balance goes a long way. It doesn’t need to be overly formal, but it’s worth making sure one side of the room doesn’t feel heavier than the other. So, if you’ve got a large bookcase or shelving unit, you might find it works beautifully to echo that weight with a sideboard or media unit on the opposite side."

headshot of Kate Palmer from the Painted Furniture Company
Kate Palmer

Kate Palmer is the creative director at The Painted Furniture Company. With a background in fashion design and passion for colour and interiors, Kate has helped many customers to achieve the exact look they desired for their home.

13. Include a 'get-away-from-it-all' spot

pale blue reading nook

Cosy spots to hide away from the bustle of family life are important for the whole household (Image credit: Earthborn)

No matter how much you might love spending time with your family, we all need a little quiet moment occasionally.

For this reason, in a family living room it is a good idea to try to carve out a small space to retreat to – reading nooks are perfect for this as are cosy window seat ideas from which to sit and enjoy a view.

If you are struggling for storage, use these built-in retreats to your advantage and incorporate lift-up seats that hide a spot to stow away lesser-used items, or include drawers, cupboards or open shelving into the design.

14. Inject some warmth to a family space with wood finishes

cosy living room with wooden wall cladding and wood burning stove with tiled surround

From wall cladding to flooring, natural wood finishes are a great way to inject a cosy, warm feel (Image credit: Chris Snook for Main)

A sense of warmth is essential if you want everyone to gather around and feel welcomed within your family living room – and including plenty of natural wood finishes is a fast way to achieve this, as well as being perfect for anyone after rustic living room ideas.

"Wood is one of the most amenable materials you can introduce whether used on the floor, walls or for furniture," explains Alex Main, director of Main. "Immediately adding depth and warmth to spaces, wood has an enduring quality that helps a living room feel more cosy and inviting – perfect for a busy family home.

"Embracing wood’s natural beauty via cladding is an easy way to add plenty of personality whilst pairing with an array of interior design schemes," adds Alex. "From modern to traditional, wood is a flexible surface that is available in a choice of forms and colour ways."

kitchen expert Alex Main the director of Main
Alex Main

Alex Main is director at Main, a family-run company that has been creating highly individual bespoke kitchens that are full of personality and unique style since the 1970s. The family business has built up its knowledge from the vast experience gained from trading within the national and international markets.

15. Make built-in storage a top priority in a family living room

cream living room with grey built in alcove storage

Bespoke, built-in storage ensures no space is wasted – and helps keep things looking streamlined (Image credit: Neptune)

Great storage is essential if you want this to be a room that remains feeling calm and uncluttered at the same time as being capable of housing all the 'stuff' that you need to keep close to hand.

"Storage is what allows a family living room to feel calm rather than chaotic – a calm room isn’t about having less, it’s about having a place for everything," shares Holly Scott. "The most successful spaces use a mix of hidden storage for everyday items and more styled storage for books, accessories, and pieces that add personality. Built-in joinery works beautifully if the budget allows, but even well-chosen freestanding pieces can achieve this."

"Storage is one of the most important elements to achieving a multifunctional living room – if it can be planned from the early stages of the design process, you can maximise your space as much as possible to meet the needs of both adults and children," explains Scott Hedger, senior design consultant at Ashford Kitchens & Interiors.

"As a high-traffic zone which can easily become cluttered and disorganised, built-in cupboards and storage units with doors enable good organisation, hiding away messy items. If you work from home, set aside an area to create a work zone with a bespoke built-in desk with floating shelves to add personality to an otherwise unused corner."

kitchen design expert Scott Hedger
Scott Hedger

With a degree in Interior Design and a natural talent for balancing creativity with practicality, Scott is a Senior Design Consultant for Ashford Kitchens & Interiors. Scott brings each client’s vision to life with thoughtful precision and heartfelt care, ensuring every space not only looks beautiful but functions seamlessly.

FAQs

Is it safe to have a wood burning stove in a family living room?

Open fires and log burning stoves both add so much character, as well as visual and physical warmth to a living room but, in a multi-generational family space, are they safe?

Jon Butterworth, sales director at Arada Stoves, has some reassuring advice. "A wood burning or multi-fuel stove can be installed safely in a family living room, provided it is fitted and used correctly.

"One of the most important considerations is the distance between the stove and surrounding materials. Items such as furniture, curtains, flooring and decorative features should be kept a safe distance away, particularly if they are made from combustible materials like wood or textiles," continues Jon. "The stove must also be installed on a non-combustible hearth, such as stone or glass, which protects the floor from heat and any debris. Where a stove is installed without a chimney breast or masonry surround, an insulated flue system is required to safely manage heat and protect nearby surfaces.

"For families with young children or pets, additional precautions can provide extra peace of mind," adds Jon. "A fireguard or protective safety gate positioned around the stove can help prevent accidental contact with hot surfaces, particularly when the appliance is in use. A non-negotiable is a working, fitted carbon monoxide alarm installed in the room where the wood burning stove is fitted. Keeping log baskets, fire tools and fuels neatly stored away from children is also recommended."

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headshot of stove expert Jon Butterworth
Jon Butterworth

Having worked at the company since 2010, Director Jon Butterworth purchased the Arada Stoves in 2019. With a wealth of experience in supplying and installing stoves, Arada specialises in wood burning, multi-fuel, gas and bioethanol stoves for the UK market. 


It isn't just living rooms that can benefit from a tailored design that takes into account every member of the household – when looking at how to design a home for a young family, it pays to take a whole-house approach.

Natasha was Homebuilding & Renovating’s Associate Content Editor and was a member of the Homebuilding team for over two decades. In her role on Homebuilding & Renovating she imparted her knowledge on a wide range of renovation topics, from window condensation to renovating bathrooms, to removing walls and adding an extension. She continues to write for Homebuilding on these topics, and more. An experienced journalist and renovation expert, she also writes for a number of other homes titles, including Homes & Gardens and Ideal Homes. Over the years Natasha has renovated and carried out a side extension to a Victorian terrace. She is currently living in the rural Edwardian cottage she renovated and extended on a largely DIY basis, living on site for the duration of the project.